Is it Trauma really?
Sometime back I was reading a beautiful article written by one of my friend Max on trauma, where he mentioned beautifully that is it trauma that we really refer to at all times or it is that we are talking about broken relationships? I think this is a valid point put forth by him that indeed we don’t feel the trauma but the hurt of the broken relationship with either ourselves or the situation or people. It is the flow of LOVE which is interrupted and hence we feel the pain.
For example, a woman who has been abused by her partners in the past is not actually traumatised by enter a relationship, but rather she does not know how to fix the broken relationship with herself which will empower her. Whether it is a financial issue or a relationship issue, it is the broken bridge which needs mending. If we dig deep into ourselves, we will find a thousands of such broken relationships within. Rather than acting like a victim, it is time to first bridge the connection with our true authentic self which is nothing but pure LOVE.
People walk into our lives for a reason, with an opportunity to help us grow and if they are giving you a difficult time, then rather than feeling traumatised, give them that gratitude for giving you an opportunity to accelerate the process of your growth. Because in a perfect setting, no human being thinks of any creative solutions to grow and fulfil their soul purpose. It is a very rare situation. Hence, the next time you’re facing any issue, rather than saying “I am going through a Traumatic time”, change your language and say – “I have a broken relationship with something, that I need to acknowledge and integrate.” Indeed, this is an empowering statement. Feel the energy by saying it now in your heart.
Accepting Mother = Accepting Life
A mother is the life giving source to every child in the womb. All the essential nutrients required to develop a healthy baby are provided by her and to top it all the pains she undergoes while birthing a baby are beyond our imagination. Even though the umbilical cord is cut off after the birth, still there is a bond between the mother and the child for a lifetime. This cord is invisible, but the care and warmth is felt throughout life. No matter what religion it is, each teaches to respect and honour our mothers.
Dwelling deeper into this concept of respecting her, let us look at it from a different view point. There is always a generation gap in the thought process between us and our mothers. But still, there is one thing which cannot be taken away from her and that is this life which she has given us. No matter how you feel about her, how much you disagree with her, but let us not forget that she never judged us while birthing or while giving us all the essential nutrients while carrying us in the womb. She deserves all the respect and love irrespective of what she believes and thinks.
My recent learning at Hellinger Sciencia in Germany about Family Constellations strengthened this belief even more strongly as to how dis-allowing her love to flow through us smoothly in life can create entanglements in our life. Whether it is being successful professionally or in relationships, one needs to accept this life which mother has given us by accepting her and her love. There will be disagreements as each is a different individual and hence will carry a different point of view, but when it comes to her, let all of this melt down. The next time you look at your mother, gaze into her deep eyes which are awaiting to feel your love. Gaze at her with respect and honour she deserves.
I am indeed grateful to my mother to give me this life and I cherish it completely. Let us all make a promise that whatever she has given us, we will make the best of it. This will surely make her feel proud. As you’re reading this, whether your mother is with you in the physical form or not, feel her essence in you and be happy and accepting of that part which is her in you. I am sure this will make a huge difference in your life. And lastly, don’t forget to be grateful towards her for all that she has given.
Blessed be all the mothers!!!
Importance of today’s date 1st July, 2016
Numerology Compound number 17
Today’s date has great significance as the compound number after totalling the date is 17. According to the science of Numerology, this number has the root of number ‘8’ which denotes ambition, money and power. Individually number 1 brings along creative energies and number 7 brings with itself intellectual and mystical vibrations. So go ahead and manifest whatever you like today for your career. Meditating on oneness of the Universe and yourself aligned to this oneness will help you bring your manifestations into reality.
Wishing u all a very Happy Day!!!